Helping couples move from disconnection to reconnection, one honest conversation at a time.

About the Work

Bob believes that every couple—no matter how stuck—can find their way back to each other. With decades of real-life experience and professional training, Bob guides couples out of relational gridlock and into secure, fulfilling connection.

His marriage coaching approach is rooted in empathy, clarity, and the belief that love is not a destination, but a daily choice to turn toward each other—even when it’s hard.

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Who This Coaching Is For

✅ Couples who keep having the same arguments
✅ Partners feeling emotionally disconnected
✅ Those recovering from betrayal or trust injuries
✅ Parents navigating transition (new kids, empty nest, etc.)
✅ Married roommates who want to feel like teammates again

Our Services

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    One on One

    1:1 Couples Coaching
    75-minute virtual sessions that unpack stuck patterns and build better connection tools. $225

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    Intensive

    3-Hour Deep Dive Intensives
    Designed for couples who want fast traction. Process ruptures, map your negative cycle, and begin the work of repair in a focused, powerful setting. $525

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    Pre-Marital

    45-minute Prepare for marriage—or re-marriage—with a deeper sense of your patterns, your values, and what love looks like in real life. $125

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What to Expect

Bob brings compassion, structure, and a little humor into the places most couples avoid.

You’ll experience:

  • Real tools, not fluff

  • Safety to speak honestly

  • A neutral guide (not a referee)

  • Gentle but honest feedback

  • Momentum—without perfection

“The couples who make it aren’t the ones who never break—they’re the ones who learn how to rebuild, together.”
— Bob Hellmann